Impulse Purchase- 'Cobra Lily'. Help!
Lorri
16 years ago
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Comments (13)Thanks for the replies so far! I will research the slope stabilization. I don't want to randomly shove plants in the ground back there without a solid plan since they will be more difficult to remove compared to putting bulbs in the ground out front. I will be researching that and probably hiring an expert to advise me on the erosion issues. Drtygrl- I was actually thinking about the hostas last night. I definitely do not want to toss them. I think I'm going to put them in on the north side of the house. They should be happy there in the shade and there's plenty of bare space for them to expand. I do want to find a green filler ground cover for that slope by the driveway, but probably not a big plant like the hostas. I know I posted a ton at once, sorry! I look at the yard and it is overwhelming. I don't want to tackle all of it this year (that would be nearly impossible), but I would like to come up with a 3 year plan for the yard. If I don't have a plan, I fear that I will continue with my impulse to shove colorful plants randomly in the ground w/o a plan & have an even bigger mess on my hands! One more question: how far back can I cut the azaleas? Can I severly trim them without damaging them? I would like to reign in the ones in front of the house after they bloom as they are taking up most of that potential flower bed, and I think at least one needs a big time haircut. I really need to go dig out my horticulture textbook from college to go with the shade books I'm checking out from the library. I wish I had taken more classes like that instead of making it my last class before graduation! Thanks again!...See MoreLily Auction-Wormman20030
Comments (32)Folks....This is getting a bit of hand. One has to think if some people have nothing better to do than to make mountains out of molehills. Some of you who responded, have clearly not even read my post. If you don't read, please don't make a reply to it. In fact, I never stated that I consulted an attorney. I just said that an attorney has been consulted. And I wanted to point out that if you damage a person's livlihood as a result of unsubstantiated slander, you can be held accountable. Be careful what you say. This is not a threat of lawsuit, just some good advice. It is easy to state your 'experience' here with no facts to verify that what you say is true. Had you complained to us we would have the facts of what the item was and what was said in the description, etc. Any negative comments made here, without facts to back it up, is just worthless prattle. If you have a complaint, do something substantial and use our feedback protocol. I will explain this later. Let me say it once again: No one has the right to stifle the FACTS. That is never the intention in any of my posts. It is the damaging assumptions and implications that have been made that have INDEED damaged Marvin....implications and even statements MADE PUBLICALLY, that he was deliberatly trying to rip people off...WHICH IS CLEARLY NOT THE CASE. There was a lack of communication to his buyers, yes, and a couple of mistakes. This is very different than what some were saying. Most of this misunderstanding and mis-information can be avoided if people would simply follow the Lily Auction Feedback protocol: 1) Contact the seller first if you have a dispute. 2) If no response or inadequate response given by seller, then do contact us. 3)If you are not happy with the result of the above 2, then leave FACTUAL negative feedback. And know that if a seller is proven to be abusive or negligent in fulfilling orders, they will be suspended from the Lily Auction. This feedback system is already in place and works just fine if people would use it as it was meant to be used. Steve, thanks for your comments and sanity. I understand your "head scratching" though. Here is how I understand the legalities, in layman's language: Emotional, defamatory or judgmental feedback can be considered libelous. Comments like: 'Seller sent bad plants & 'ignored' my emails" is different from saying 'I was not happy with plants and got no reply from my many emails' which is factual. Comments like, 'this seller is a crook and is deliberately ignoring me' is clearly libelous. If you have any doubt about what is libelous, then you should ask attorney. If your comments are factual, you do not have to worry. Also, a seller may never respond negatively to a buyer unless the buyer does not pay or is verbally abusive. Moreover, retaliatory feedback is NOT allowed. So buyers should feel free to leave honest and factual feedback without fear of retaliation. Please folks, if you still feel that the Lily Auction is a good place to shop then please use our feedback system as it was meant to be used. Looks like a couple of you don't like it. That is your prerogative. But don't blame anyone but yourself for not using the feedback system if you did not report a bad experience. One person stated that 'Daylily people' are not 'nice' people. Boy, if anything is the exact opposite of the truth, this statement was. Generally, daylily people are wonderful. I have met some of the nicest people in the world through daylilies....through the Lily Auction, other venues, and conventions. There are definitely exceptions though, as with anything else. I can tell you with absolute confidence, that it it only 1/10th of 1% that are problems. Certainly fraud of any kind must be exposed and not tolerated. But this was not a case of fraud. Marvin must reconcile his mistakes, and he is doing just that, and he must also take responsibility for his lack of communication. My experience with him is that he is a humble man, overwhelmed with orders this spring, and on the verge of tears to me on the phone about this whole incident. I see no reason why we cannot both hold him responsible, which he clearly does himself, as well as treat him with kindness. I don't see this as a matter of either/or. Truth with compassion, has always been the high road for me. Sincerely, Mike Longo...See MoreHelp with impulse purchase ?- bulbs
Comments (13)caladiums never come back as good the second year as the first... i think it's the heat that zaps them. i've never had them last longer than 3 or 4 years. the trick with freesia, for me at least, has been farily full shade -- maybe just 3-4 hours of sun. they, too, dwindle over the years. i had 50 last year, 30 this year... but they come back for a few years and the blooms are worth it. btw, i highly recommend easytogrowbulbs.com. the caladiums i got last year from them were the size of SOFTBALLS! Here is a link that might be useful: freesias in my garden...See MoreNewbie Lily grower - Please help!
Comments (7)Chocolatemoose, I am really happy that we can grow crape myrtles here in MD :o) One of my favorite summer trees. I also stretch zone restrictions a bit by planting some stuff close to the house foundation. Have Calla Lilies, Dahlias, tender Clematis perennialized this way. As for Asiatics, I am not sure what is the culprit. Some of them are wonderful perennials for me (Matrix, Lollipop, Fata Morgana, Black Out, etc.). Some of them never return or decline significantly next year after planting and disappear on the second year (Landini, lots of others). Lost of Asiatics' hybrids do well here (LA lilies). I did not have a single Oriental that return year after year, and I tried tons of them. Some people have Casablanca and it does well, but I do not grow it. I am extremely happy with Orienpets. They are superior to Orientals IMO....See MoreLorri
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