What about Iron Gray? Would it be too dark for our wooded setting?

FYI Romabio is good at what they do ... no argument here.... but they have a limited range of only whites & very light grays and it cannot be applied to anything with conventional house paint on it, only raw unpainted masonry or other mineral paint applications. There are several other mineral paint (aka potassium silicate) paint co's in the US, a couple of which have a sort of "primer" product which can go over conventional paint - try this is one : https://www.beeckmineralpaints.com/ For best results though I think Id still want to get off as much of the paint film as possible .... but without going too far and damaging the brick. Then the primer product, and then the mineral paint. Of course this would be hugely labor intensive or expensive to hire out, that is assuming you can even find anyone who has heard of mineral paint or would want to do it. At the very least find a person who understands the science about this and doesnt shrug off the concerns - maybe there are some other types of breathable coatings that I dont know about. Michelle above is correct - any coatings need to be breathable, or there WILL be damage, its only a matter of time. The brick bldg across the street from me was painted only 12 yrs ago and is already spalling (ie brick cracking and disintegrating) terribly in some places near bldg exhaust vent and other places Its really sad how the big box, do it cheap mentality of the last 30-40 yrs has resulted in so much shoddy workmanship that is now considered the norm.... and actual physical damage. Not many people thinking long term any more, beyond 10 or 20 yrs.

Thank you. Yes, as the town built out, the custom home market evolved. The cul-de-sac has the 70’s ranch style homes. Important to me to keep the color very scuttle and integrate into the landscape. I am definitely rethinking the cream trim. Seems out of place to me as I seek to have the home melt into the forest landscape

PPF's roof extension would do a lot to improve the look. Beyond that, I would look at landscaping. Use potted plants and outdoor furniture to turn the pavement in front of the living space into patio living space, not driveway. If you have the budget, consider removing a chunk of that driveway and converting to a garden bed. It's the concrete driveway running right up to the house that makes everything so jumbled and "remuddled."