Take as many pictures as you can. You can always edit later. It's easier to document everything than try to guess what you will and won't need. Each wall elevation should be documented in both full length and detail. Work around the room in one direction to make sure you cover everything. After you take full shots move in for details. Open the cabinet doors, especially under the sink. Also if you have a hood, document the vents above. Get closeups of windows, doors, and trim. These will be so valuable as you go through the process. This will also be great practice for your in process photos because you learn where to stand for best views.

That is some major work going on. Congrats. I see why you are looking for recipes below. Can't wait to see the after.

$200 paint $200 new pulls and hinges (???) $3,000 countertops $300 new light fixtures: hanging lights over bar, and not sure what else $150 new 24" cabinet door Total: $3850 New appliances would bring the total to $7,000 I'm guessing. Am I forgetting anything? We're putting wood floors in everywhere so I left that out.

Okay, if you're going to dust that soffit, attractive or not, it'd better at least have lights. I really like your house's architecture. It deserves a new kitchen. As for removing the typical homey "before" clutter, truly what doesn't cost a cent is usually a very significant part of the remodel. The "after" kitchens these days are so gorgeous that I've literally never seen one returned to its previous state. People give service to their beauty gladly. :)