Those cabinets in and of themselves are not "kuntry" or even "country". It will be your other choices that determine whether you wind up with that look or not.

I think you can use these fawn cabinets and avoid the Kuntry look through smart styling of hardware, faucets, lighting, backsplash tile, grout, and flooring. The look of these items can sway Kuntry, contemporary, eclectic, modernist, traditional. Does your builder have selections for these items or do you source and purchase them yourself?

Living below your means is a foreign concept these days. Kudos to your for your sensibility. We need more of this.

Price out this Vedhamn kitchen from Ikea.

You hae to live there, Not the builder.