How wide is the vanity? IKEA has a few double sink options that are great for smaller spaces – but you do need at least 39 inches in width.

We have a pocket door in the master bathroom to save space and it is fantastic, but it is definitely an involved install.

Don't think the pdf attached, so here's a jpg with a few narrow depth vanity & sink options.

Love the two sink idea but also think about getting a taller vanity for more storage underneath. I've heard toilets are very difficult to move and replumb.

Not sure that a pocket door will give you any real space where you need it the most which is at the sink.

Where is this / which USDA hardiness zone? I can definitely picture a deck wrapping around the house, and you could integrate large planters into the edges of the deck to create a privacy screen through the right plants for your climate. Depending on how much space you have left, I also wonder if you could get a tree or two onto the lot, and then layer native plants of progressively lower heights out towards the sidewalk.

To break the vastness of the white wall, plant some tall flowering vines or bushes.

LB interiors has a great idea like the "lakefront elevation" to do a elevated garden, possible two tiers. If that is unaffordable perhaps some large narrow trees like the photo below:

I think the right lighting will make a huge difference here. Have you considered some sconces on the walls plus a large chandelier (or grouping of multiples) over the table? If you Google around you will find some good rules about the correct way to size a chandelier based on the size of the dining room table as well as the size of the room itself.

Is there a general guideline as to how big a chandelier should be in proportion to the table? I like the rectangle idea but hubby only wants to do one in there.

Also I found a fabric swatch from smith and noble downstairs that I thought would look good in there but I can't find it on their site now. The site is not too user friendly on the iphone.

Lighting with dark wall colors can be challenging... I mean expensive! I would add art with a lot of white to bring light back in the room.
Have you thought of getting a large drum pendant or may be two?
That will soften all the 90 degree angles you have in the room. Houzz has a lots of designs with rectangular tables and round pendants. In my humble opinion, It's not about shape, it's about proportion... Good luck!

Cast iron all the way!!!!! Can't believe this is not an option on the poll. Made in the US, reasonably-priced, no health concerns, eco-friendly (last forever and hand them down to your grandkids), and if seasoned and cared for properly will give virtually non-stick performance. You just need a quick tutorial on how to oil and clean them and you're set for life.

We ditched all our nasty non-stick pans, then sold our nice stainless steel pans on Craigslist and have never looked back.

I love my SS and cast iron. However, I use two non stick pans regularly for eggs. I use a particular Cuisinart that is unbelievably comfortable to use and I replace them at least once a year or sooner if they show any wear at all. HomeGoods is a lifesaver.

I can tell you how I get always perfect eggs on stainless steel: the secret is slow - low temperature.

In reference to "unbelievably comfortable Cuusinart", try Multi-functional Cookware 8 in 1 from CookwareMagic com. You will get a convenience which is better than "unbelievably comfortable" - you do not have to even touch it, it will do the job while you can do something else. Plus it functions also as adjustable strainer, adjustable filter, adjustable pitcher, hot pad, dish or plate, lockable container, traditional or water saving colander. And it is just safer: no burns when straining and protects from loss of food or burning your kids if dropped accidentally. Convenient too - you can carry it around the kitchen by one hand - one step convenient when you store in, and remove from, a refrigerator.