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Hello, my name is Surfer. I’m 21 years old and I am studying to be a scene designer/director for the theatre. I am considering using my skills to become an "outrageous cake designer".
Obviously I love to bake, and I am glad to give away great dessert recipes. There is only one recipe that I can’t give away, and that’s for my homemade fudge pie. Sorry.
I live at home while I am studying, and I take care of my younger sisters. My mother is a hoarder, so we are having some "organizational problems" in our house.
My dad, who is a naturally tidy person is the one most affected by my mother's hoarding. He is away on business a lot, and while he's gone, I run the household. I miss my dad very much when he is away. My mom and I are close in age, and she treats me like a little sister rather than a daughter. So she delegates all the household tasks to me. I take my little sister to school, clean the kitchen, laundry, you know, pretty much do everything, plus a full time job and classes.
I have given up on pleasing my mother because she still has never told me that she loves me, and I doubt after 21 years she ever will. She's a great friend, but not a parent. So I accept her friendship, even though I wish I had a mother.
It is important that I live in a stressfree environment due to my heart condition. Since that can be difficult, I have become a creative master of peacefulness. If you need any tips on how to "mellow out", just ask me!
I live in: United States
First registered on March 27, 2007 .